"If you want to have a successful and fulfilling New year, start by examining the way you think and feel about your job, your relationships, and yourself. After all, the single most important factor in personal happiness and your impact on others is your attitude." Michael Josephson


After all, we get to decide what we think.  Just because a thought passes through our head doesn't mean we have to let it set up a home there.  Decide to look the best in a situation.